Submitted by Meredith Cooper, Europe Region Financial Liaison

There are feelings I associate with the arrival of each season, and summer is no exception.  With the recent arrival of Memorial Day, I start to feel a tendency toward all things patriotic.  And, it doesn’t start and stop with Memorial Day.  After all, we still have Independence Day just around the corner.  And, Flag Day!

When Memorial Day begins to roll around you hear many people say that we need to take the time to remember what our patriotic holidays are all about – after all, it’s not really about the cookouts and days off of work, right?  It’s really about taking a moment to be thankful for all who have died for our freedom.

This year, however, something occurred to me.  It is really important to remember the sacrifices of those who died for our freedom.  But, they aren’t here anymore.  Here in Europe, we have a plethora of military memorials and cemeteries to visit, and it is stirring to do so.  Last year on Memorial Day, our family visited the Netherlands American Cemetery and Memorial in Margraten, Netherlands to place flags on the graves of our fallen.  Not only was it moving to see the endless rows of men who died for their country, but it was equally inspiring to see the numbers of Dutch who routinely care for the graves of their liberators.

But, again, these patriots are gone.  We can’t actually thank them for their service to our nation.  So, how can we really pay tribute to their sacrifices?  James 1:27 says, “Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress…”

As women who are part of a greater Protestant Women of the Chapel ministry, many of us have been affected by the deaths of fellow active duty service-members or those who have served with our spouses.  All of these circumstances have been tragic, and we have pledged to do what we could to help the spouses and children suffering as their loved ones were taken suddenly.  But, as time goes on, how many of us really fulfill the pledges that we made to check in on our friends and make sure that we could provide comfort in the midst of their ongoing sorrow?

We are in the midst of serving our country during a long war.  We proudly do what we can to serve during this time.  But, there is a lot of suffering going on around us.  There are women who are spiritually, emotionally, mentally, and physically exhausted.  There is no greater way that we can honor those who have died for their country, or those who are continuing to serve far from home, than taking care of those left behind.

One day as I was seeking to encourage a downcast person, my words were met with a harsh rebuke. It left me feeling rejected and judged. Resisting the urge to leave, I sat down and asked the question I know the Lord gave me. “What would it look like for me to encourage you?” The person changed from silent and withdrawn to talking and sharing. If I had left this person after the initial rebuke, I would have missed an opportunity to see how the Lord could use me to minister to this person. Because I stayed, I experienced an intimacy with this person I would have never shared had I left. The joy and blessing I felt left me thinking, “Wow, I need to do this more often!”

By this we know love, because He laid down His life for us. And we also ought to lay down our lives for the brethren.

1 John 3:16

When Jesus was on the cross for our sins, he was insulted and rejected by those around him. Even though he could have called down angels in heaven to stop the madness and the insults, he remained faithful to carry out the mission of the Father. That mission was to take upon himself our sins so that we could have eternal life. Even while enduring the pain on the cross, Jesus said, “Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do.” As we encounter people who sometimes reject us we need to remember what Jesus did upon the cross. He forgave them, committed his own spirit into the Father’s hands and allowed God’s will to be done.

How does a person lay down his/her life for others? Believers can sacrifice (die to self) because Jesus sacrificed His life for us. When we realize in our hearts how our sin grieves God and the cost of His Son on the cross, it results in a gratitude for what He did and a growing desire to please and obey Him. One of the ways we please Him is by loving others. Because we are sinners we are utterly incapable of doing even the smallest of things right without His grace and the enabling power of the Holy Spirit. Sin no longer reigns in our hearts, but Jesus reigns, resulting in a constant access to His unconditional love, compassion, mercy, acceptance, and all the fruits of the Spirit listed in Galatians 5:22. We can now respond in new ways to the people and circumstances of our lives. He made it so we can give our lives for others by laying down our need to be right, our desires, and our agenda, even our demands to be loved and accepted. Living life remembering all He did to free us from our sin and the way He lived brings a sweet communion with Jesus that produces that inexpressible joy in relationship with Him and others.

What relationship is before you that needs the Redeemer’s work? Allow Christ to work through you in your words and actions; He will indeed bring healing. Love’s sacrifice does indeed bring great joy; for in that we know Christ and knowing Him results in abundant life.

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