In the spirit of keeping things light and simple this month, I decided to share a few ideas that can be implemented any time of year with seasonal variations. The point here is to spend time on what really matters – the people in our lives – and avoid falling into the trap of busyness and perfection. Remember Mary and Martha? Let’s try to be more like Mary this holiday season.

Gratitude Game for You: Get out a pad of paper and a colorful felt-tip marker. Set a timer for two minutes. Make a list of things you’re grateful for before the timer goes off. Post it where your family can see it. Let it be a testimony of God’s goodness during this Thanksgiving season and beyond.

Gratitude Game for Your Kids or Your Whole Family: Follow instructions above. The person who has written the most gratitude items in two minutes is the winner and gets a prize. If I were the winner in your house I might want a King-Sized Reese’s Peanut Butter Cup pack or Snickers or Butterfinger . . . yum! If you want to take the winner out for a special treat I highly recommend Dairy Queen’s Reese’s Peanut Butter Cup Blizzard (or other flavors). Then again, there’s always Baskin Robbins or Cold Stone. Whatever works for the winner in your house!

Place Card Gratitude: Use card stock about the size of a 4×6 card in colors of your choosing. Fold them in half and write names of those who will be present on the outer side. Or decorate them without names. Write a short scripture verse that expresses thanks to the Lord on the inner side for each person to read. The host starts and each person takes a turn. If you have a more diverse crowd, put a number on the inner side of each place card instead. Before or after the meal is served, have everyone look to see what their number is. The person with number one gets to begin the gratitude chain by sharing something they’re grateful for. Go around the table(s) in order.

Nature Walk for Treasures: This is a fun activity with kids and/or friends. Take a nature walk and pay attention to God’s creation. Notice the detail in everything you see this time of year at your location. Here in Colorado the evergreens are dropping cones. We might do a pine cone hunt in our neighborhood. What can you and your kids hunt for? As you collect your treasures, talk about how the Lord has provided for you this year.

Christmas Wreath: Assemble all your nature treasures and make a Christmas wreath that represents your part of the U.S. or the world. Attach a ribbon with your family name, the date, and the installation name and location. If needed, get extra supplies at Hobby Lobby or your local craft store.

Thanksgiving Prayer

Our Father,

Giver of life and breath, we are grateful for your presence. Let us sense it more powerfully this Thanksgiving season. Give a special touch of love, peace, and comfort to our military families who have suffered loss. Make provision in a special way to those who are enduring financial hardship. Let your mercy be felt by those who struggle with deep grief, heartache, and pain of all kinds. Show your goodness and faithfulness to those who wrestle with abuse and betrayal. Draw near to those who feel a wide chasm between themselves and you. Bless with your unconditional love and acceptance those who feel rejected and abandoned.

We are your people; people who desperately need you. Illuminate our lives with your grace and your beauty. Enable us to know you in ever more tangible ways. We gratefully present these requests to you anticipating what you will do on our behalf. Amen.

Submitted by Nancy Sheridan, Fort Irwin, CA

I ran into a friend of mine while I was out with my family and it was a sweet run in…when we were parting she said I don’t know how you moms of multiple children do it! Well…for those of you who see me smiling with my children looking clean and behaving somewhat well, here’s the reality.

The toddler and preschool years were incredibly tough! I was grinning ear to ear when you saw me because I was so THANKFUL to God that I actually made it to the church! My kids behaved well because they knew they were under DEFCON 4 alert! I’ve had a child scream for 3 hours because she wanted her own way and I wouldn’t let her. I’ve had to drag a child to the bathroom at church after he threw himself on the ground to protest potty training (for 6 months). I homemade all their baby food, then went on a Wendy’s drive-thru stint (raising my cholesteral count for the first time in my life) when Steve deployed. I felt that God made them beautiful just so they would live long and prosper! I cried and gnashed my teeth. I had children that didn’t like wearing their poopy diapers! I had a child that clung to my leg and whined. I had one that touched and tasted everything and REALLY enjoyed crawling on the floor of public bathrooms…WHOAAAA!!!!

Then…they all hit at least 4 years old. And the world slowed down. The birds sang. And I could breathe. When the three turned 4, 5 and 6 I thought I had gone to heaven. The issues didn’t happen at breakneck speed and I wasn’t scrambling all over the floor. I made peace with my mommy brain or lack thereof. My children began to listen and some of my hard work started paying off. My husband came home from Iraq. I began to cook again. Our family was reunited and mending. Then along came my son Nathan and a house addition. In actuality, peace came to our home. God granted it to us and I receive it with open arms. We made it through some storms!

So when you see me smiling and floating on air as I show off my chubby bundle of joy…know that this season I’m thoroughly enjoying came with a price…a lot of hard work, a lot of time flat on my face before God, and a lot of blood sweat and tears. Literally. And yes, now I am having the time of my life! I can certainly do all things with Christ who strengthens me!

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