Submitted by Kimchi Lya Blow
“In everything set them an example by doing what is good.” (Titus 2:7)
As military wives, we have the exciting experience of living all around the world meeting different people. As a Christian, this is a powerful opportunity to be used in ways you have never dreamed. God has given you the unique calling to bring hope and truth into cities and communities in which you live. The apostle Paul willingly traveled throughout various cities during his time in ministry. He took advantage of every opportunity to meet new people and plant seeds for Christ. Paul knew who he was in Christ, and he was passionate about going wherever God called him to spreading the Gospel. He taught and preached the word of God everywhere he went, but more than that, he lived it. He taught others through practical examples in his own life. Eventually, because of Paul’s dedication to the Lord and steadfast example, Timothy, Titus and others were influenced by his teachings and his life. His legacy lives on today as one of the most influential leaders in Christ Jesus.
The apostle Paul is no longer with us, but his example is. Do others see you as an encouragement and influence like Paul? Begin to ask yourself these questions: Am I the example of a strong and courageous servant of the Lord? Do I fear when my husband gets deployed or rather do I trust in the Lord for his safety and provision? Do people see me as a woman who is kind and serving to her family and others around her; or do they see a woman who is stressed out with life’s challenges, leaving me with no time for anyone else? Do people see me whine and complain about having to move because of my husband’s military job or an upcoming long deployment; or do they see a woman who graciously takes on change and perseveres? Do people see me depressed and without hope and joy; or do they see a woman who is faith-filled and holding onto the truth of Jesus. Do people see me as an encourager and do I serve my community and neighbors in practical ways?
You see, as military wives, we carry a huge responsibility—a mantle if you will—to not only support and encourage our soldiers, but also to reach out to those in our communities who also need encouragement. We start by being a Godly example of a mother, wife, sister, daughter, neighbor or employee. We begin at home with our families, and we work our way outward to those in our sphere of influence. In a way, we are missionaries just like the apostle Paul. We can learn through his example and many other great Christian leaders’ examples. It all starts with making a decision to glorify God. Our focus needs to be about winning people over to Christ by our actions and behaviors wherever we go. What kind of example are you to others?
