Submitted By Andrea Plotner

Consider it pure joy, my brothers, when you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance.

James 1: 2-3

This classic verse is one I return to and cling to, again and again, for comfort and encouragement when situations are not going according to plan (“my plan” – therein lies problem #1). Earlier this spring, I was diagnosed with Type 2 Diabetes (the same affliction as Mitford’s Father Tim, if you’re a reader) and had quite a lot of trouble, initially, finding joy or giving thanks for this new “thorn in my flesh.” Mostly I was tempted with fear about possible health complications, and clung to 2 Timothy 1:7 (For God has not given us a Spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind) and Romans 8:28 (And we know all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose.)

Not even a month into a radical lifestyle change of far fewer volunteer responsibilities, 3-5 hours strenuous exercise per week, and a transformed diet, I was feeling far more at peace and had more time to focus on my greatest treasures – my faith and my family. Deep down I knew that sincerely caring for my body – which is a temple of the Holy Spirit – was going to be a secret of ‘going the distance’ in my God-given roles as a military wife and mother.

His promises are true and trustworthy (whether I can see them or not). In this case, I can easily acknowledge that the testing of my faith has developed in me a greater perseverance, both physically and spiritually. Hidden blessings and silver linings abound for the thankful heart looking for God’s goodness in every situation and circumstance. Oh, and one more thing. I just had my 3 month check up since the diagnosis, and there is not a trace of the disease currently evident. Praise Him!

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A Final Word

A couple weeks before our move to Colorado Springs, Steve preached his last sermon. It was one I had written that he tweaked to make his own, “The Hands and Feet of Ministry.”

I felt compelled to write it in response to my deep heartache over the lack of concern and compassion I’d experienced from fellow Chaplain spouses and others at Fort Campbell. For the first time in my life I was desperate, helpless, and almost hopeless. Yet, despite my plight being widely known, few people provided real help or even offered to pray with me. I felt abandoned by the body of Christ.

As I sat in the front row of that chapel and glanced around to check facial expressions, no one seemed the wiser. The message was well received. Truth be told, many people who needed to hear it didn’t attend that chapel.

Even though I had written the sermon from a place of pain there was no indication of that. It wasn’t about me and my story and no specifics were given. It was delivered from a heart of love and concern. It simply was a message that needed to be shared. And it could be shared again today – with all of us.

As the service progressed, one of the chosen hymns was “Showers of Blessing.” In light of our compassionate early PCS I felt blessed to be headed back to Fort Carson. But I needed more. I felt as though all I had experienced up to that point were trickles, drizzles, and drops of blessings. I wanted the SHOWERS!

As the days passed, my strength and energy ebbed away. I felt less human each week. I was more like a catatonic zombie. Being alive was too much trouble. My facial expressions were dull and lifeless. Sometimes I forced a smile or a short response out of consideration for the person present, but it got to the point where I was too weak to care. I just wanted to go home.

The day before our departure Steve drove our Plymouth Voyager minivan and I drove our Honda Accord to post. The 20-minute drive was all I could stand. A new level of listlessness and lethargy consumed me. We left the Accord at a Chaplain’s house overnight and stayed in a hotel.

I lay on the bed in our hotel room perplexed by the burning sensations in my legs. It felt like little fires beneath my skin. I had no painkillers. It didn’t occur to me to take prednisone for pain. I thought that was for other problems. And I didn’t want to subject myself to it again anyway. I’d have to be dying.

I wasn’t in any condition to go anywhere so Steve walked across the street to get a McDonald’s meal and he grabbed a sundae to go along with it. The ice cream temporarily soothed my emotions but it did nothing to douse the fires in my legs.

I dug through my bag and found some ibuprofen that took the edge off the burn so I could sleep. There was no way I could drive to Colorado the next day. It’s a good thing God had that little detail worked out well in advance.

THE JOURNEY CONTINUES:

How often do we pass by a sister in need – even when we’re aware of her situation? I wonder how often I’ve done that. I hope not often. Of course, not every person can respond to every need, and certain ministry assignments are intended for certain Christians.

But I think that sometimes we refrain from helping others because we’re afraid of getting involved. We’re afraid it will require too much time or effort. Maybe we’re afraid we’ll catch their disease, or mysteriously end up with their problem. Maybe we’re so committed to “good” things that we “don’t have time” to reach out when a serious need exists. I suspect we assume other people are helping so we don’t need to.

There usually is a core group of helpers. Perhaps each of us needs to ask the Lord what our role is in the realm of helping sisters in need. Then follow through on what He says. In doing so we can be sure we’re involved where we need to be. We can avoid feeling guilty if we are instructed to refrain. We can avoid helping out of obligation. And we can maintain balance and boundaries in our own lives. The most important thing we can do is obey God’s call.

And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him (Colossians 3:17).

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Life Happens – Jesus Answers is a weekly column addressing the challenges we face in life, coupled with the presence and grace of Jesus, our One True Source of hope and peace. The column’s author, Laura Firtko, can be reached by email here: LifeHappens@pwoc.org

You may have seen the bookmarks given out at the fall conferences or posted on our FaceBook site.  On the bookmark, we mentioned that the PWOC International Board and Joint Council (PWOCI Board along with the 8 regional presidents combined) have been considering some changes within PWOC.  I also mentioned some “needed changes” on our PWOC International Executive Board 2010 Vision video, which is now located on our website. I would like to address this in more detail with you.

As you may remember in my January 2009 President’s Letter, I mentioned that we were introducing the new Women’s Ministry Manual; Official Leaders’ Policy and Guidelines of Protestant Women of the Chapel and the new name for Traveling Training: W.I.L.D. – Women Intent on Leadership Development. These two items were the beginning of some of these changes and were a result of the development of PWOC International.

As the 2008-2010 PWOC International Executive Board began meeting and discussing the future needs of the ministry, we began praying about what we were observing and then later responded with recommendations for development and/or change for the related areas of PWOC.

1.   Leadership Development: we know that it is within PWOC’s “DNA” to raise up, train up and send out leaders.  In understanding this, we looked really hard at some of the things that we needed to provide our leaders, which were being addressed in some places and not in others.  In looking at our current leadership training offerings, we found that –

  • Traveling Training did a wonderful job of going out to the masses and training on topics of spiritual development and team building.
  • Most regions offered some level of leadership training at a central location for local board leadership, primarily that of president and vice president.  They focused their training on leadership issues, regional updates and peer relationship building. There was an exception to this in a few of our regions, which trained additional board positions; however, overall we found leadership training gaps and inconsistencies in our training models across the regions.
  • We needed more time to provide position specific training, which is vitally needed to help women fulfill their leadership roles on a practical level.
  • Chaplains and regional presidents were voicing concerns over issues that were arising within local PWOC’s.  Many of these concerns were based on misunderstandings and a lack of knowledge on practical positional roles, working together as a team and then how to work with their chaplains.
  • Traveling Training could not effectively address individual position training or practical board operations within the training model offered.
  • We needed to be able to cast a unified vision for the ministry, so that we would all be on the same page.  Our annual PWOCI Executive Board DVD video tried to accomplish this; however, it didn’t always connect with the training content or the theme.  We are learning that when all three are in sync with each other, there is a great synergistic effect, which helps our leadership join together in God’s plan for PWOC as a whole.
  • There is synergy and excitement when bringing groups together around a common vision and goal.  Ideas and support flow when we come together in a larger group.  Peer relationship building helps foster growth in both positional roles and in the Lord.

Based upon our findings, the PWOCI Executive Board felt it was time to pull the local leadership teams into one training event.  By working alongside our regional presidents and their boards, we can provide consistent leadership training across the ministry.  We pulled from Europe Region’s ATC (Annual Training Conference) positional training and what we loved about training within Traveling Training, added a few more focus areas such as learning how to minister to those we serve as lay ministry leaders and addressing specific leadership challenge areas and then came up with the new W.I.L.D. Weekend events.  Regional presidents still have the ability to encourage, mentor and update their local leadership through the W.I.L.D. Weekend event, as they are the official host for this training.

We know that this is just the beginning of the new W.I.L.D. training model, which will be fine-tuned and changed over the years as leadership needs arise.

To be continued…

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It’s a beautiful thing. Our relationship took root in high school typing class. The typing lab had just received two or three computers but the teacher didn’t really know how to use them. I did. My mom was working on a computer science degree around this time so I was very familiar with the computer’s features and benefits…namely, the backspace or delete key! Do you know how much better your typing score gets when you can use the backspace key! For those too young to remember the time when IBM referred to a typewriter more than a huge corporation, typing time tests did not allow for corrections; errors in typing lowered your score. On the computer, however, there was no tracking errors, only final output. To me, this golden nugget felt like the key to the Teacher’s Lounge.

As my digital relationship grew and developed, a close relative to the backspace key emerged…the Undo command. No matter how far down that dark digital alley you travel, the Undo command is waiting to bail you out. Yes, there can be limitations in some programs but in most cases, the Undo command will respond to your digital 911 in less time than it takes your heart rate to accelerate.

The key to the Undo command is this: you loose the ability to use it when you close your file. So if you do something that produces scary results, don’t close your file in a panic. Instead, give the Undo command a go at the problem and see if it works.

On the PC, the Undo shortcut is Control+Z, Command+Z on the MAC.

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Tech Tuesday” is published every Tuesday. To reach Tracy with comments or questions, email her here.

The weather in Japan has been nice lately. The hot, humid temperatures haven’t descended upon us yet. Everyone has been enjoying the outdoors and working hard to mow the grass weekly and keep things neat and trimmed to pass Air Force standards for base quarters. Many people have planted flowers, bushes and added outdoor décor in the neighborhood in hopes to create an appearance that is nice, beautiful and different from the next door neighbor. That is difficult to do in base housing. But it is achievable with hard work and time.

My friends that live in the quad across from me have beautiful gardens growing. They get a lot of sun during the day because of the position their house is facing. Unfortunately, my house is facing the opposite direction, so my front flower garden is not receiving the sunlight needed for the flowers to grow and flourish. I should have planned logistically and purchased predominantly shade plants or plants that require only part sun, but I bought some that require full sun and they are not growing as well in the shade.

Another gardening problem I am encountering is a pine tree that sheds a lot of needles in my yard. These needles create a huge hindrance as they fall down upon the ground under the tree. The needles produce an environment that is harmful and can destroy the grass, so my husband and I rake the needles every week to remove them because they prevent the grass from growing and spreading.

God is the great gardener of our lives. He desires for us to grow spiritually, flourish, bear fruit, and spread His love and the Gospel to others. We must position ourselves before the Son, the light of the world, in order for God to be able to create and bring forth a harvest from our lives in order to bring Him glory. It is not easy in the world and sinful environment we live in today. We must be sure to rake or remove areas that hinder our growth, not just weekly, but perhaps even daily that could prevent us from becoming the person that God desires to create. It takes much time spent with God and sometimes hard work and perseverance when the needles start falling down upon us.

Tip of the summer season as we take a break from PWOC activities: Don’t neglect the garden….spend time with God in His Word and time in prayer.

How is your garden growing? Are you beautiful in appearance and bearing fruit? Do you need to do some raking? Are you planning and positioning yourself before the Son of God and allowing Him to shine His light upon you so that you may grow and bring Him glory? That thought actually brings me to the new PWOCI theme, Shine In the Light of His Glory.

When Jesus spoke again to the people, he said, “I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life.” John 8:12

Help us, O God our Savior, for the glory of your name; deliver us and forgive our sins for your name’s sake. Psalm 79:9

And we, who with unveiled faces all reflect the Lord’s glory, are being transformed into his likeness with ever-increasing glory, which comes from the Lord, who is the Spirit.  2 Corinthians 3:18

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Alterations

On Easter Sunday in 2002 I sat at the dining room table in front of my makeup mirror. This was the first time in months that I bothered to apply makeup and the lighting revealed changes in my skin. The texture was no longer smooth and the pores were huge. It looked acne prone but no acne was present. And if that wasn’t enough, I had a beard — a thin layer of light hair or “peach fuzz” outlining my face.

That’s a steroid for ya. It turns men into women and women into men.

I was the unfortunate recipient of prednisone side effects. I’d been using the drug for six months and that was enough to cause damage. As was the case when I discovered bald spots on the back of my head on Steve’s birthday, I tried to make myself look pretty. I felt altered. It took herculean effort to muster a good attitude. I forced a smile at chapel but inside I grieved. Of course, no one else knew the difference, but no one else had my face. I hoped these changes would be reversed if I quit taking prednisone. (I will go ahead and tell you now they never were. Physical changes from prednisone usually are permanent.)

In the meantime I continued my supplement regimen hoping that it would be strong enough to hold off the disease process. But soon my hopes would be dashed. One day in the bathroom I looked down at my legs. They were covered with red-purple blotches. It looked like my blood was trying to escape. Along with this horrifying discovery came irritated elbows and knuckles. Red streaks lined my fingers. An excruciating blend of weakness, pain, and burning attacked my upper arms.

These alarming new developments prompted me to contact Tricare to see if I could get a different rheumatologist closer to Clarksville. They accommodated my request and I managed to get an appointment scheduled for June.

By the time June rolled around my condition deteriorated. Every activity was a chore. I was so listless that even holding my Bible was hard. I didn’t want to listen to the radio. Didn’t want to read. Didn’t want to watch TV. I lay there staring at the ceiling praying to God in my mind, “Lord, I’m too weary to move my lips. Read my heart.”

It wasn’t long before someone recognized the severity of my health. Steve got word that we were being sent back to Fort Carson. It was sort of a compassionate reassignment without the official title. It really was more of a compassionate early PCS. Under normal conditions we would have remained at Fort Campbell for another 6-12 months. God orchestrated this move and had the Army send us back to where I had family and access to better specialists.

Because we only had a month before moving I canceled my appointment with the rheumatologist. What was the point of getting started with a new doctor when I was leaving? I was ready to move on, ready to get back home.

God came through with provisions for our move. It was obvious he had everything worked out ahead of time. Again I would see Him acting on my behalf. Yet, I sense a question circulating, “Why did He allow this to happen to you in the first place?” That question would be answered in months to come.

THE JOURNEY CONTINUES:

“Why?” It’s a question we find ourselves asking at times, especially when something horrible happens that seems to have no valid purpose or reason. I like to have answers. I like information. I try to figure things out. I need to know that somehow God will replace my ashes with beauty, my grief with joy (Isaiah 61:3).

What I’ve come to accept is that God will always be incomprehensible. God has a plan that involves the universe and I’m a microscopic part of that. God’s plan is something so massive and astounding that I wouldn’t understand it even if He tried to explain it to me. When I get outside myself and acknowledge the fact that life involves things much bigger than me, and recognize that God is God and that He has eternity in mind, my perspective becomes a little clearer.

All I can do is throw myself at His feet in surrender and trust that He will make all the suffering worthwhile. . . . He has made everything beautiful in its time. He has also set eternity in the hearts of men; yet they cannot fathom what God has done from beginning to end . . . (Eccles. 3:1-9).

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Life Happens – Jesus Answers is a weekly column addressing the challenges we face in life, coupled with the presence and grace of Jesus, our One True Source of hope and peace. The column’s author, Laura Firtko, can be reached by email here: LifeHappens@pwoc.org

Now that we have become PWOC International, some have wondered how our ministry selects a new theme.  It all begins a few years out with much prayer to seek the heart of the Lord for our theme.  One of the responsibilities of the PWOC International Executive Board is to hear the Lord on the matter of where He is at work and then cast vision for the whole ministry.  This is quite an involved process, but basically the PWOC International Executive Board comes together after their season of prayer and discusses what they are each hearing from the Lord on the matter.  They then ask the Theme Development Coordinator, Titus II Advisors and Prayer Coordinator to help come alongside them in weighing out matters of understanding what the Lord is saying.  The PWOCI Executive Board will come into a consensus decision on the theme, related Scripture(s) and songs.  Sometimes this is done in stages.  Normally, the theme and Scripture(s) are decided first and then supporting songs follow.  We then go to the PWOC International Joint Council, for their consensus decision.   Once a final consensus decision is made, the PWOC International Theme Development Coordinator goes to work with the President, to determine main theme teaching points and the supporting artwork.  Once all of this is complete, it is rolled out to the PWOC International Board and Regional leadership at the annual PWOC International Vision Week (the meeting place for the PWOCI Board, Regional Presidents and Vice Presidents), to W.I.L.D. (Women Intent on Leadership Development) trainers at W.I.L.D. Train the Trainers weekend, then on to local leadership through W.I.L.D. training and then finally posted on our website June 1st each year for the entire ministry to view and officially begin using during fall kick-off events at local PWOC’s.

In the past, the theme was held as a “secret” and then rolled out for all to see at the local PWOC fall kick off’s, but now we are more desirous that the entire ministry is prepared for the new season in advance.  This year, the PWOC International Board is sharing the vision for where we believe we are headed as a ministry through a DVD presentation posted on our web site for all to see.   We are praying that this will help prepare everyone for this very interesting season we are entering.  This summer, we want you to begin asking neighbors and friends on your military installation to join us for a yearlong adventure at PWOC this coming year.  It is going to be an amazing adventure.

Brenda Marlin, President, PWOCI

According to the U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics, by 2008, more than 75% of American households owned a computer. If the growth trend set by the previous years held true, easily 80% of all American households own a computer in 2010. For those that mean to reach Americans with less-than-pure intentions, reaching them through their computers would provide a very efficient vehicle.

Although computer viruses date back to 1971, the phrase computer virus went mainstream in 1984. By 1986, viruses hit personal computers and were largely spread by floppy disks. Remember those? Anti-virus software didn’t arrive until 1990. Up to that point, viruses were known to wipe out entire mainframes and some writers demanded payment for the removal of the virus they had written. In 1999, the author of a virus spread through Outlook was jailed for 20 months after causing over $80 million in damages across thousands of PCs. The Code Red worm of 2001 caused over $2 billion dollars in damage as it spread to thousands of Windows servers. In November 2008, one very salacious worm infected 9-15 million Microsoft Servers around the world including those of the French Navy, UK Ministry of Defence (including Royal Navy warships and submarines), Sheffield Hospital network, German Bundeswehr (Federal Police Force) and the Norwegian Police.

Virus writers keep virus protection software writers very busy and are always playing catch-up. Once virus protection software writers learn of a new virus release, they write new code to combat the virus and clean the PC. In response to this, the virus authors write and release another new virus and so the cycle continues. It’s enough to make your head spin!

How do you, as an average computer user, protect yourself in such a rapid environment? My first recommendation is to purchase and install a full-spectrum Internet security package on your PC. As you will quickly see, there are scads of these packages to choose from. Which one is the best? Ask ten people and you’ll get ten answers. Beware of the novice user that highly recommends a particular title over all others! When asking for and receiving advice from others, make sure the source of your advice is qualified to give it! Remember, too, that commercials and ads are meant to convince you to buy a product and to saturate the market with its name. Beware of packages that are popular simply for their ad campaign or package labeling. That doesn’t mean they have the best product, it simply means they have the best marketing department!

A little known fact, and I can’t figure why it’s so little known, is that most Internet Service Providers (ISP) offer a security package as a member benefit. In most cases, the consumer is already paying for this service but hasn’t activated it. In my experience, these packages exceed those available on the retail market. If you think about it, it’s in the ISP’s best interest to keep you and their network clean so relying on their timeliness is often a safe bet. If you are unsure if your ISP offers such a benefit, just give them a call. They’ll walk you through the whole process. Again, it’s in their own best interest, right?

My Mother-in-Law has a saying, “If one is good, two is better!” Not in this case! Choose one all-around package and remove any others from your PC. Do not overlap as this has the potential to bog down and lock up your system. Don’t invite the blue screen of death!

Everything to this point has been PC related, that is, Personal Computer running a version of the Windows Operating System. What about Mac? Isn’t a Mac at risk, also? The answer is no, and yes. Most virus writers target PCs since they represent market dominance, over 90%. Writers target the largest possible population since disabling 10% of the market would barely make the local news. For the writers that do write for the Mac, the Mac operating system has built-in features protecting it from attacks. Whether an add-in security suite is necessary at this time for a Mac gets mixed answers so it becomes a question of personal preference.

At the end of the day, this is not an issue you can choose to ignore. Ignore it and you’ll get it!

computer viruses: a computer program that can copy itself onto a computer without the permission or knowledge of the user. Viruses could be introduced to your computer from a disk, flash drive, CD.

computer worms: Similar to a computer virus but a worm can “Self replicate” itself to other computers throughout a computer network without any user involvement.

trojan horse: Just like the mythological Trojan Horse, these programs appear to be useful free downloads but when you download them to your computer you also download other unwanted and malicious programs onto your computer. Trojans could thus be used to install all kinds of malware onto your computer.

spyware: Malware that is downloaded to your computer with the purpose of tracking or recording the user’s activities without the user’s consent. Such malicious software could be used to log keystrokes to get passwords, or just track internet search histories to target pop-up advertisements.

adware: Some free downloads from the internet will ask the user for consent to install spyware software on the users computer as part of the download agreement.  Such software is usually referred to as adware instead of spyware since the user has given consent to be tracked in exchange for some free software

web cookies: These are usually harmless bits of text that are downloaded automatically whenever you open a website. The cookie is used to track your visits to a specific website.  The creators of websites use cookies to gather data about who and how often their website is being accessed.

Sources: 180techtips.com, Internet.Cytalk.com, pc-history.org

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